This weekend is Homecoming at Purdue University.
Homecoming is a time when alumni return to campus to reunite with friends and reminisce about their college days.
Oh….and go to the football game
You may be picturing alumni clubs and alumni donors as rich retirees, but recent grads – the truth is….It’s not too early to give back to your school.
You can volunteer your time and make use of your connections to impact current students in the following ways:
Guest Speaker or Mentor
Career exploration is important as some students are still figuring which industry would be the best choice for them. If your company will allow it, a job shadowing opportunity can help a student to experience a typical day in your role.
The first step on the path to an internship or full-time career opportunity is creating a resume. As a resume reviewer, you can assist students in making sure their resumes are polished and professional.
Resumes and interviews go hand in hand. You can help students prepare to make a good first impression by participating in a mock interviewing program. Using a list of standard behavioral interview questions, you can simulate a typical job interview so that students can practice communication skills.
Guest Speaker or Mentor
Student organizations are often looking for professionals to speak at various club meetings and conferences. If you are willing to talk about your company or share your success story, this is another great way to share your knowledge and experience.
If you are willing to meet students one-on-one or in small groups for coffee or be contacted by phone or Skype, students who are looking for some direction and advice would be grateful to benefit from your mentorship.
Whether you can contribute a little or a lot, every dollar adds up. If you make donation, most contributions are tax deductible and often you are given the option to designate whether you want your contribution to go to a specific student organization, program, or school within the university. To increase the impact of your contribution, find out if your company offers a matching program.
Also, don’t forget to leverage your connections inside and outside of your workplace. Many corporations are involved in philanthropy and are willing to sponsor student organizations and university events. You can act as a liaison in helping to coordinate a company sponsorship.
For more information on how you can give back, contact your school’s alumni office or career center.
Ever Grateful, Ever True
Have a Happy Homecoming Week
I first read about this book in Essence magazine book reviews and added it to my Want to Read list on Goodreads.
When I got the email about the Goodreads giveaway, I entered the giveaway and won!! Now I always enter Goodreads giveaways – who knows, I could win again : )
Between wedding planning
and international travel
I was having a busy summer and didn’t get around to reading this book.
This summer, my plans were pretty open and I wanted to make sure I made the most of the summer by creating a Style and Savings Summer Fun List and a Style and Savings Summer Reading List.
Of course this book was on the list –
The Perfect Find was the perfect summer read
It was fun and romantic, and better than the usual rom-com because its plot is not predictable.
The main character Jenna, is in a similar situation as Liza of TV Land’s Younger, being a 40-something woman working in a youth – obsessed industry (although Jenna is honest about her age and experience), trying to keep up with millennial culture and falling in love with a younger man, Eric.
I liked that the story began with Jenna’s current situation but later covers the backstory of her college days, rising up in her career, and her previous long-term relationship with her college sweetheart Brian.
Unlike Younger –
The Perfect Find has diverse characters!
If the book is made into a movie or TV show (I wish!) it would have a Shonda Rimes-esque cast. I can see Vanessa Williams as Jenna’s “queen of mean’ boss. The handsome leading men chosen to play Brian and Eric must have looks, charm and personality worthy of attracting a beautiful, unique, and accomplished yet down-to-earth woman like Jenna (and worthy of being my new celebrity crush!)
The New York backdrop and fashion culture are both integral to the book and would translate well to the silver screen or flat screen.
Without giving away any spoilers, I was satisfied with the book’s ending. It ends with a five year jump into the future. It was a nice stopping point, but still leaves room to for follow up stories in the form of a sequel or series.
Thank you Tia Williams for writing such great book and allowing us to peek into your glamorous life!
You guys! Just found out that #ThePerfectFind won Book of the Year last night at the 2017 AAMBC Literary Awards in Atlanta! I'm so sad I couldn't make the ceremony (and meet special guest, Nikki Giovanni), but I'm over-the-moon excited and so thankful! Big gracias, @bossladytamika! #blackwritersweekend #aambcawards
Four years ago today, I was discharged from the hospital, sprinted home, picked up Lina, and made it to Broadway in time to see The Lion King. We'd had tickets for months, WE WERE NOT MISSING IT. I could barely keep my open…I'd been on IV painkillers for days. I had needle bruises up and down the insides of my arms. But we had a fab time! During the show, tho, I kept thinking about all the times my mom showed up for me, no matter what – and I never gave a thought to what was going on in her personal life. Guys, hug your mom today. Or call her, or send her a cute text. Our moms fought dragons for us. #fbf #dominicanblowoutscanwithstandanything
Summer is quickly approaching and now is the time to plan how I will make the most of these beautiful days!
As a kid, we would always participate in the summer reading program at the local library. Now I’m older and won’t get a free Dairy Queen Dilly bar , a beach ball, or a slinky, my incentive is the pure enjoyment of reading.
Here is a list of books (all of which are by female authors) that have been on my To Read list for a while that I plan to finally read this summer:
The Perfect Find by Tia Williams
I first saw a review of this book in Essence magazine, then added it to my Goodreads “Want to Read” list. I entered the sweepstakes to win a copy of the book and was lucky enough to win an autographed paperback. I now follow the author Tia Williams on Instagram @shakeyourbeauty, where she posts adorable photos of her daughter, her book signings, her fashion and life in New York.
Why Not Me? By Mindy Kaling
I have been a fan of Mindy since The Office and have been catching up on The Mindy Project on Hulu lately. I took a break from it for a while – but now that I am giving it another chance, I’m glad to see Mindy as a working mother with a successful practice who is launching her own business.
I read Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? a couple years ago and I hope this book is also as funny.
Adulting: How to Become a Grown-up in 468 Easy(ish) Steps by Kelly Williams Brown
I added this book to my Goodreads “Want to Read” list back in 2014, when I may have still been experiencing a quarter-life crisis. During that time, I also liked to read the very relatable blogs Twenty Something Living and When Life Gives You Rubi. This book seems like it will fall in the info-tainment genre and I think it will be comforting to see how far I’ve come since then.
The Frugalista Files: How One Woman Got Out of Debt Without Giving Up the Fabulous Life by Natalie McNeal
No one really wants to be in debt, but through budgeting and reducing spending there is a way out. Some examples of this are too extreme for my taste (see: tiny houses, junk cars, ramen dinners). Style and Savings was created on the principle to “live stylishly without spending your savings”. I want to maintain a level of comfort, while still living within or below my means.
That wraps up my book list for the summer (in addition to the magazines I subscribe to).
What’s on your Summer Reading List?
The Mothers a Novel by Brit Bennett is one of the best written books I have read in a long time – maybe ever. I would place it among the ranks of The Secret Life of Bees. If you enjoy this book as much as I did – it will stay in your mind after the last chapter closes.
Thought provoking topics provide the foundation of the story which also has unexpected twists and secrets that unravel slowly. Brit Bennett didn’t take the easy way out by writing in detail about the milestones a reader would expect, which makes this novel so interesting.
The following questions are intended for book discussion and may contain spoilers:
1 – Why is this book titled The Mothers?
2 – Why didn’t Mr. Turner keep Nadia closer after her mother’s death?
3- Why wasn’t Mrs. Sheppard more compassionate towards Nadia?
4- Both Pastor Sheppard and Mr. Turner dedicated lots of time to the church. Is it good to serve the community as an example for children or bad to take time away from raising them?
5- How were Luke and Nadia affected by their decision ?
6- When Aubrey first started visiting Luke, why didn’t Nadia tell Aubrey about their past? Would you have told your friend if she started dating your ex?
7- Why didn’t Luke tell Aubrey that he used to date Nadia?
8- Why does Luke treat Aubrey better (in the beginning of their relationship) than he treated Nadia ?
9-What made Nadia & Aubrey’s friendship last after the day at the beach when Nadia admits to hooking up with Luke in high school?
10 – Nadia imagines what her mother’s life would have been without her. Do you think Nadia gets married and/or raises a child one day?
11- Why did Aubrey desperately want to be a mother?
12 – Should Luke and Nadia have ended up together?
After reading this novel, I wanted to learn more about Brit Bennett. Through various magazine articles, I found that she grew up in Oceanside, California where the novel takes place and like Nadia, also went to college at the University of Michigan.The Mothers is her very first novel and she was 27 years old when the book was published in 2016. It is inspiring to see a young black woman author with so much talent and I look forward to reading more of her work.
If you’re a popcorn fan, you’re familiar with Garrett popcorn – the Chicago based gourmet popcorn retailer. While Chicago is a 2 hour car ride away from Lafayette and a popular weekend trip, you don’t have to venture even that far to get freshly popped, delicious popcorn.
Thanks to LaTarsha (Tarsha) Hendrix-Johnson & family, Lafayette has its own gourmet popcorn kingdom.
Before getting into the popcorn business in 2015, Tarsha successfully operated the Virtuous Woman Salon and Beauty Spa located in downtown Lafayette. After 20 years of bringing beauty and confidence to her clients, Tarsha had an idea for a new business inspired by her sons Kenneth Jr. and Kendall.
Kenny Kendall’s is conveniently located in Tippecanoe Mall near H&M (one of my favorites). As we approached the Kenny Kendall’s kiosk, I was impressed by the variety of popcorn flavors offered. With 12 flavors ranging from Strawberry Cheesecake to Spicy Smokehouse Cheddar, there’s something for every popcorn lover.
On a recent visit, we were greeted with a warm smile and offered samples to taste. I also had the opportunity to ask Tarsha a few questions about her experience as an entrepreneur to share with the readers.
What is rewarding about being an entrepreneur?
Tarsha Hendrix-Johnson: As an entrepreneur you have the ability to lead others in the right direction. Leading by example is the one of the most important factors in leadership and entrepreneurship. The most rewarding (accomplishment) would be able to establish a business for generations to come. My husband and I are planting seeds now for them to grow into something great in the future for the next generation which would be to leave inheritance and generational blessings for my children and their children.
What do you like most about what you do?
THJ: Being able to serve others.
Your family pictures are beautiful, do you hope for your sons to be involved in the business?
THJ: Yes I do. Actually my 17 year old is already involved. He works for the business and actually operates a shift by himself. We are learning and growing together. My 3 yr old just eats all the cheese popcorn he wants, so I guess you can say he’s involved too! 🙂
Where do you see Kenny Kendall’s in the near future (1 – 5 years from now) ?
THJ: Within the next 5 years I see Kenny Kendall’s with 3 locations and serving others with love, patience, gentleness, meekness, temperance, goodness, kindness, and joy “from the seed to the service”!
We wish the Hendrix-Johnson family the best and hope that Kenny Kendall’s is here for years to come. My new favorite flavor is the Boiler Mix – you’ll have to taste it !
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Welcome to the first Friday of February 2017!
Here are a few of my favorites from this past week:
Soap & Glory Gift Set
I have been a fan of Soap & Glory for several years now. This gift set was a Christmas gift from my sister. I love the pink packaging and the fresh, clean scent. The shower gel lathers into lots of bubbles and the body butter is a thick moisturizer – perfect for protection from the cold winter weather.
Sample Size 12 months
Speaking of soap and glory, 12 months Soaps is continuing to grow. These sample soaps are an adorable size and are made with natural ingredients.
I recently purchased a dress and needed a cardigan to go with it. I found the black cardigan with the flower embellishment at a local resale shop. The brand is The Limited (they were pricey, but still sad to see it go out of business) and only cost $8.00! The red cardigan is Ann Taylor Loft from Poshmark for $13 plus shipping.
The Minimalists is a podcast that I just discovered – they started in January 2016, so there are already 52 episodes that I can listen to. I’m still deciding what I think about it. I just want to live in a healthy balance somewhere between TLC’s Hoarders and HG TV’s Tiny House Hunters . For now minimalism seems extreme, but I am interested enough to keep listening and add it to my podcast rotation which also includes Gilmore Guys & AMPsConnected
Happy Friday – Enjoy your Super Bowl Weekend!